Tell Her She Looks (and Tastes) Great
“It’s been proven that women who feel confident about the appearance of their genitals are more open to different kinds of sexual activity, and are more likely to orgasm because they feel relaxed… When a man goes down on his partner, he should be enthusiastic, tell her how beautiful she is and how great she tastes. Don’t treat it like a chore.”

—Debra Lynne Herbenick,

Use Your Ears
“The only difference between a gigolo and a regular guy is that a gigolo listens to what a woman wants in bed. So, ask. I would also

advise that you to ask her while not in the bedroom — raise the discussion while out walking or doing some other casual yet intimate thing together.”

—Dr. Helen Fisher, Department of Anthropology, Rutgers University

Touch Her Everywhere (with Oil)
“Sensual touching releases a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin, which increases a woman’s testosterone levels and ignites her sex drive. The seductive silky feel of oil being rubbed on skin is a turn-on for more passionate sex — for both of you.”

—Carol Cassell, Ph.D, former president of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Western Region

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